Seven Tips Guaranteed to Improve Your Dating Life!!!

                                    How to Improve Your Dating Life



1. Nurture a sincere curiosity about people.

Dating is an exercise in getting to know the other person, and for this reason it’s important that you’re able to communicate your interest. Sometimes two people are just right for each other, but they never get to realize it because both are holding back or too focused on themselves to show true interest in their mate. Do your best to shift your attention off yourself and onto your date. So do ask questions; be curious about the person sitting in front of you. Disclose a little about yourself, something that can pique and intrigue your date. Sometimes even if a date doesn’t lead to romance, the good conversation can be worth the evening’s entertainment. At least this way, if you two don’t work out you could gain a friend for life.



2. Make yourself more attractive.

Yes, you have to go there. While at first blush it seems shallow, the reality is you lessen your chances of getting a good date by going out of your house hair uncombed, dress dowdy and eyes revealing you haven’t been sleeping well. Most of the time it’s the physical that sparks interest in the opposite sex; make sure you’re taking pains to be attractive. Do yourself a favour—visit your nearest salon and buy yourself a nice dating outfit or two --- you’ll feel more confident when you know for certain you’re a sexy beast.



3. Expand your social network.

It’s a simple case of probability. The more people you know, the greater your chances of finding someone you can connect with.

So don’t be a shy wallflower. Get yourself out socializing! Sign up for conferences and workshops, join professional organizations, get yourself to the gym. Be open to dating sites if you have the courage. If you want to be strategic, you could even connect yourself to clubs where your type is likely to hang out. The internet is a feast for finding groups of people who love the same things, so do a search of local meet-ups or social events in your area of interest.



4. Date outside your type.

If you feel bored with your dating life, chances are you’re going out with the same type all the time. Monotony is the root of dissatisfaction, so dare yourself and ask someone that in the past you wouldn’t in your wildest dreams imagine dating. Our types often reveal where we’re comfortable and sometimes it takes some shaking up to get the excitement back. You’ll never know: when you open yourself to all the possibilities, you just might find the one.



5. Get mentoring on how to flirt well.

Unfortunately, not all of us were born with the flirting gene and it’s easy to get signals mixed when you’re a newbie at it. So find someone you know who’s successful at the craft or attend a workshop, and get yourself learning. Ask for feedback on how you come across and what message you send with your body language. Know the subtleties of touching and complimenting someone you like. Test --- yes, test! --- your skills on friends and co-workers you find attractive. The more you do it, the more confident you’ll be. And even if at first it all seems unnatural, after a few dates, you’ll find your style in no time.



6. Make sure that you’re ready for a relationship.

Very important question for you: if things work out between you and your date, are you ready to take things to the next level? Because if you’re afraid of commitment, then you might be unconsciously rejecting every suitable candidate for you just so you won’t be vulnerable. Or if you’re simply afraid of being alone, you might be approaching the whole process with some kind of desperation. Date because you’re ready to be in a relationship. If not, give it some time or get some help from a coach or therapist.



7. And lastly, have the certainty that you are a person worthy of being loved.

This is probably the best advice of all. All people have insecurities and doubt, but at your core you should know that you are deserving of the very best, and therefore will strive to look for the very best. Knowing your worthy means you don’t allow yourself to be abused, or you won’t simply take the first person that comes along.